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Lonely Planet's The LGBTQ+ Travel Guide by queer neurodivergent travel writer Alicia Valenski is a first queercentric offering from the travel guide publisher.

The 240-page coffee table book covers 50 LGBTQ-friendly destinations worldwide with relevant interviews and tips for where to eat and stay, suggestions for activities and itineraries, and more for queer travelers. The guide also provides important safety information for each destination.

“We recognised the queer community was looking for a guide that understands them, especially given the challenges they continue to face when travelling. For example, Booking.com recently revealed 59 percent of LGBTQ+ travellers have experienced discrimination when on holiday,” Chris Zeiher, senior director of trade sales and marketing at Lonely Planet, says online. “Creating a guide that is community-led, inclusive, and a little bit surprising in terms of destinations featured felt absolutely essential.”

Lonely Planet's The LGBTQ+ Travel Guide retails for $50. You can learn more about the guide, including how to purchase, at www.lonelyplanet.com.

You can learn more about queer neurodivergent author Alicia Valenski in the video below.

Keep scrolling to see our curated list of our editors’ 15 favorite destinations from the new guide.

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Amsterdam

The bridge of the Emperoru2019s Canal (Keizersgracht) in Amsterdam, The Netherlands

The bridge of the Emperor’s Canal (Keizersgracht) in Amsterdam, The Netherlands

SCStock/Shutterstock

Amsterdam, the capital of The Netherlands, is an obvious preferred destination for LGBTQ+ travelers with its canals, picturesque gabled facades, museums, and progressive political and cultural mindset.

The Netherlands became the first nation with marriage equality when a law passed by the legislature and signed by Queen Beatrix took effect April 1, 2001. Same-sex sexual relations have been legal in The Netherlands since 1811, with a brief exception during the occupation of World War II.

You can read more about Amsterdam at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Looking to move abroad? The Netherlands is one of 10 countries LGBTQ+ people should consider

Anchorage, Alaska

Aerial view of the Anchorage, Alaska, skyline during summer

Aerial view of the Anchorage, Alaska ,skyline during summer

Jacob-Boomsma/Shutterstock

Anchorage might be better known for its long, cold winters and stunning surroundings, but that doesn’t mean it’s lacking a vibrant LGBTQ+ community. Just visit Mad Myrna’s (@madmyrnasak), the city’s gay bar and cabaret club, if you need to be surrounded by family, drag queens, and fun times.

You can read more about Anchorage at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Gay mountaineer Cason Crane knows how to surmount homophobia

Austin, Texas

Tracking the End of the Rainbow statue in Austin, Texas, USA

Tracking the End of the Rainbow statue in Austin, Texas, USA

Steve Heap/Shutterstock

Austin is the LGBTQ+ safe space for queer folks in the red state of Texas. Check Will and James in Austin on their YouTube series Get Back Out There as they explore the capital of the Lone Star State.

You can read more about Austin at Lonely Planet.

Bangkok

Floating lamps in the Yi Peng Lantern Festival at Wat Arun, Bangkok, Thailand

Floating lamps in the Yi Peng Lantern Festival at Wat Arun, Bangkok, Thailand

Southtownboy Studio/Shutterstock

It is no surprise to see Bangkok, the capital of Thailand, featured in the Lonely Planet LGBTQ+ Travel Guide. Same-sex sexual relations have been decriminalized since 2003, and Vajiralongkorn, the king of Thailand, signed a law recognizing marriage equality in 2024. The country also features amazing beaches, friendly people, and a lively nightlife scene.

“From tasty meals at luxurious hotels to impressive performances by amazing drag queens, Thailand is the best getaway for a top-of-the-line vacation,” Out Traveler’s Ricky Cornish writes about the country following his recent visit.

You can read more about Bangkok at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Ricky Cornish says to pack your Speedos because Thailand is the ultimate LGBTQ+ getaway

Edinburgh

A rainbow of balloons on the Royal Mile celebrating 2019 Pride in Edinburgh, Scotland

A rainbow of balloons on the Royal Mile celebrating 2019 Pride in Edinburgh, Scotland

Ludovic Farine/Shutterstock

When the Romans first set foot in what is now Edinburgh at the end of the first century C.E., they found descendants of a people who had settled the area since at least 8,500 B.C.E.

Stepping back into the modern era, Scotland has emerged as a front-runner in European progressivism. In 1981, it legalized same-sex sexual relations and facilitated a vibrant LGBTQ+ community. The city's progressive values extend to its art scene, with events like the Edinburgh Festival Fringe, the world’s largest (and perhaps wackiest) performance arts festival.

You can read more about Edinburgh at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Elska presents the queer men of Scotland

Lisbon

The famed Pink Street (Rua Nova do Carvalho) in the Cals do Sodre neighborhood of Lisbon, Portugal

The famed Pink Street (Rua Nova do Carvalho) in the Cals do Sodre neighborhood of Lisbon, Portugal

Pajor Pawal/Shutterstock

Lisbon offers a bustling urban environment while retaining its historical charm. The city’s history is reflected in its architecture, with landmarks and well-preserved buildings dotting the landscape.

The city’s reputation as a gay romantic destination is evidenced by its queer-welcoming restaurants and hotels, and iconic gay locations like the Rua Nova do Carvalho, or Pink Street, with colorful umbrellas providing shade.

Set in a Mediterranean climate with warm summers and mild winters, Lisbon is a year-round LGBTQ+ destination.

You can read more about Lisbon at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Escape to Lisbon, Portugal, with gay travel influencers Michael & Matt

London

Big Ben and Westminster Bridge at sunset in London, United Kingdom

Big Ben and Westminster Bridge at sunset in London

S. Borisov/Shutterstock

Medieval, modern, and multicultural all at once, London is a top destination for LGBTQ+ travelers — if you can handle the rainy weather.

Once you’ve finished with London Bridge, Buckingham Palace, and Big Ben, Soho, Shoreditch, Dalston, Camden, and Vauxhall await with their numerous LGBTQ+ bars, clubs, and restaurants.

You can read more about London at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: London calling – Your ultimate gay guide to London

Madrid

Handsome family celebrates Gay Orgullo (Gay Pride) Parade 2019 in Madrid, Spain

Handsome family celebrates Gay Orgullo (Gay Pride) Parade 2019 in Madrid

Miruna-Ioana/Shutterstock

Madrid is renowned for its vibrant gay nightlife, especially in the Chueca neighborhood, which is considered the heart of the LGBTQ+ community in the city. The neighborhood is filled with bars, clubs, and venues catering to family.

Madrid Orgullo (Madrid Pride) is one of the largest Pride celebrations in the world, attracting millions of visitors each year.

You can read more about Madrid at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Take a look inside the world's top-ranked hotel penthouse suite

Melbourne, Australia

Colorful beach houses at Brighton Beach in Melbourne, Australia

Colorful beach houses at Brighton Beach in Melbourne, Australia

f11 photo/Shutterstock

Melbourne, Australia, might not have a designated gayborhood like the Castro or Boystown, but Victoria’s capital city has plenty of bars and nightclubs catering to the LGBTQ+ community. And the transgender Wachowski sisters chose Melbourne as a stunning filming location for their 1999 classic The Matrix, which makes this city Down Under übercool as well.

You can read more about Melbourne at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Why Sydney WorldPride was more than just a party down under

Milan

Milan Cathedral (Duomo di Milano) at dawn in Milan, Italy

Milan Cathedral (Duomo di Milano) at dawn in Milan

Simone/Getty Images

Milan is known as the fashion capital of Italy, making it an obvious favorite for queer visitors. The city is known for its bars, clubs, and events catering to the LGBTQ+ community. Milan's progressive mindset only enhances its appeal for queer travelers.

You can read more about Milan at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Europe's largest fashion mall is a luxe Italian heaven

Portland, Oregon

A u2018Keep Portland Weirdu2019 sign at the Music Millenium record store in Portland, Oregon, USA

A ‘Keep Portland Weird’ sign at the Music Millenium record store in Portland, Oregon

Joshua Rainey Photography/Shutterstock

"Keep Portland Weird" is a way of life for some in this beautiful Pacific Northwest city, which might explain why it’s so popular among LGBTQ+ travelers. The city hosts numerous LGBTQ+ events like the Portland Pride Festival and Queer Film Festival and is surrounded by sa tunning natural landscapes. The food scene is diverse and vibrant, with vegan and vegetarian options popular among many in the community.

You can read more about Portland at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Your gay guide to the Oregon wine country just outside of Portland

Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

A colorful residential street in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

A colorful residential street in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

Bentfotos/Shutterstock

What’s not to love about Puerto Vallarta? There’s the picturesque (and very gay) Zona Romántica neighborhood with its bars, beachfront restaurants, and gay-friendly boutique hotels and rentals, and an outstanding foodie scene. Annual events include Puerto Vallarta Pride and citywide Día de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead festival.

You can read more about Puerto Vallarta at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: 5 Reasons to stay at the all-inclusive beachfront resort in Puerto Vallarta

Saugatuck and Douglas, Michigan

The Kalamazoo Replica Lighthouse in Douglas, Michigan, USA

The Kalamazoo Replica Lighthouse in Douglas, Michigan

SNEHIT Photo/Shutterstock

Michigan’s picturesque Saugatuck and Douglas might be the most gay-friendly communities in the state, with gay resorts, restaurants, and nightlife as well as plenty of secluded lakeshore dunes to sport your latest Speedo for the boys.

You can read more about Saugatuck, Douglas, and the Michigan Gold Coast at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Here's everything you need to see and do as an LGBTQ+ traveler in Saugatuck and Douglas, Michigan

São Paulo

Beco do Batman in the Vila Madalena neighborhood of Sao Paulo, Brazil

Beco do Batman in the Vila Madalena neighborhood of Sao Paulo, Brazil

SNEHIT Photo/Shutterstock

One of the world’s largest cities, São Paulo fittingly hosts one of the world’s largest Pride parades but is better known for its massive, colorful, and lively annual Carnival celebrations. The city’s humid subtropical climate brings warm temperatures year-round, making it a logical favorite of LGBTQ+ travelers.

You can read more about São Paulo at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: Elska magazine brings you the gay men of São Paulo, Brazil

Stockholm

A colorful pedestrian alley in the Old Town of Stockholm, Sweden

A colorful pedestrian alley in the Old Town of Stockholm, Sweden

Arcady/Shutterstock

Sweden’s relaxing national mindset of lagom – not too much, not too little, but just right – might explain why its capital city, Stockholm, is a popular gaycation destination. The historic Old Town of Stockholm, known as Gamla Stan, is one of the best-preserved medieval city centers in Europe, same-sex sexual relations have been legal since 1944, and the surrounding lakes, mountains, and fjords are stunning.

You can read more about Stockholm at Lonely Planet.

RELATED: See Stockholm through the eyes of this Swedish icon

courtesy Lonely Planet
Lonely Planet's The LGBTQ+ Travel Guide by queer neurodivergent travel writer Alicia Valenski is a first queercentric offering from the travel guide publisher.
The 240-page coffee table book covers 50 LGBTQ-friendly destinations worldwide with relevant interviews and tips for where to eat and stay, suggestions for activities and itineraries, and more for queer travelers. The guide also provides important safety information for each destination.
“We recognised the queer community was looking for a guide that understands them, especially given the challenges they continue to face when travelling. For example, Booking.com recently revealed 59 percent of LGBTQ+ travellers have experienced discrimination when on holiday,” Chris Zeiher, senior director of trade sales and marketing at Lonely Planet, says online. “Creating a guide that is community-led, inclusive, and a little bit surprising in terms of destinations featured felt absolutely essential.”
Lonely Planet's The LGBTQ+ Travel Guide retails for $50. You can learn more about the guide, including how to purchase, at www.lonelyplanet.com.
You can learn more about queer neurodivergent author Alicia Valenski in the video below.
Keep scrolling to see our curated list of our editors’ 15 favorite destinations from the new guide.


The bridge of the Emperor’s Canal (Keizersgracht) in Amsterdam, The Netherlands
SCStock/Shutterstock
Amsterdam, the capital of The Netherlands, is an obvious preferred destination for LGBTQ+ travelers with its canals, picturesque gabled facades, museums, and progressive political and cultural mindset.
The Netherlands became the first nation with marriage equality when a law passed by the legislature and signed by Queen Beatrix took effect April 1, 2001. Same-sex sexual relations have been legal in The Netherlands since 1811, with a brief exception during the occupation of World War II.
You can read more about Amsterdam at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Looking to move abroad? The Netherlands is one of 10 countries LGBTQ+ people should consider

Aerial view of the Anchorage, Alaska ,skyline during summer
Jacob-Boomsma/Shutterstock
Anchorage might be better known for its long, cold winters and stunning surroundings, but that doesn’t mean it’s lacking a vibrant LGBTQ+ community. Just visit Mad Myrna’s (@madmyrnasak), the city’s gay bar and cabaret club, if you need to be surrounded by family, drag queens, and fun times.
You can read more about Anchorage at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Gay mountaineer Cason Crane knows how to surmount homophobia
Tracking the End of the Rainbow statue in Austin, Texas, USA
Steve Heap/Shutterstock
Austin is the LGBTQ+ safe space for queer folks in the red state of Texas. Check Will and James in Austin on their YouTube series Get Back Out There as they explore the capital of the Lone Star State.
You can read more about Austin at Lonely Planet.

Floating lamps in the Yi Peng Lantern Festival at Wat Arun, Bangkok, Thailand
Southtownboy Studio/Shutterstock
It is no surprise to see Bangkok, the capital of Thailand, featured in the Lonely Planet LGBTQ+ Travel Guide. Same-sex sexual relations have been decriminalized since 2003, and Vajiralongkorn, the king of Thailand, signed a law recognizing marriage equality in 2024. The country also features amazing beaches, friendly people, and a lively nightlife scene.
“From tasty meals at luxurious hotels to impressive performances by amazing drag queens, Thailand is the best getaway for a top-of-the-line vacation,” Out Traveler’s Ricky Cornish writes about the country following his recent visit.
You can read more about Bangkok at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Ricky Cornish says to pack your Speedos because Thailand is the ultimate LGBTQ+ getaway

A rainbow of balloons on the Royal Mile celebrating 2019 Pride in Edinburgh, Scotland
Ludovic Farine/Shutterstock
When the Romans first set foot in what is now Edinburgh at the end of the first century C.E., they found descendants of a people who had settled the area since at least 8,500 B.C.E.
Stepping back into the modern era, Scotland has emerged as a front-runner in European progressivism. In 1981, it legalized same-sex sexual relations and facilitated a vibrant LGBTQ+ community. The city's progressive values extend to its art scene, with events like the Edinburgh Festival Fringe, the world’s largest (and perhaps wackiest) performance arts festival.
You can read more about Edinburgh at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Elska presents the queer men of Scotland
The famed Pink Street (Rua Nova do Carvalho) in the Cals do Sodre neighborhood of Lisbon, Portugal
Pajor Pawal/Shutterstock
Lisbon offers a bustling urban environment while retaining its historical charm. The city’s history is reflected in its architecture, with landmarks and well-preserved buildings dotting the landscape.
The city’s reputation as a gay romantic destination is evidenced by its queer-welcoming restaurants and hotels, and iconic gay locations like the Rua Nova do Carvalho, or Pink Street, with colorful umbrellas providing shade.
Set in a Mediterranean climate with warm summers and mild winters, Lisbon is a year-round LGBTQ+ destination.
You can read more about Lisbon at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Escape to Lisbon, Portugal, with gay travel influencers Michael & Matt

Big Ben and Westminster Bridge at sunset in London
S. Borisov/Shutterstock
Medieval, modern, and multicultural all at once, London is a top destination for LGBTQ+ travelers — if you can handle the rainy weather.
Once you’ve finished with London Bridge, Buckingham Palace, and Big Ben, Soho, Shoreditch, Dalston, Camden, and Vauxhall await with their numerous LGBTQ+ bars, clubs, and restaurants.
You can read more about London at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: London calling – Your ultimate gay guide to London

Handsome family celebrates Gay Orgullo (Gay Pride) Parade 2019 in Madrid
Miruna-Ioana/Shutterstock
Madrid is renowned for its vibrant gay nightlife, especially in the Chueca neighborhood, which is considered the heart of the LGBTQ+ community in the city. The neighborhood is filled with bars, clubs, and venues catering to family.
Madrid Orgullo (Madrid Pride) is one of the largest Pride celebrations in the world, attracting millions of visitors each year.
You can read more about Madrid at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Take a look inside the world's top-ranked hotel penthouse suite

Colorful beach houses at Brighton Beach in Melbourne, Australia
f11 photo/Shutterstock
Melbourne, Australia, might not have a designated gayborhood like the Castro or Boystown, but Victoria’s capital city has plenty of bars and nightclubs catering to the LGBTQ+ community. And the transgender Wachowski sisters chose Melbourne as a stunning filming location for their 1999 classic The Matrix, which makes this city Down Under übercool as well.
You can read more about Melbourne at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Why Sydney WorldPride was more than just a party down under

Milan Cathedral (Duomo di Milano) at dawn in Milan
Simone/Getty Images
Milan is known as the fashion capital of Italy, making it an obvious favorite for queer visitors. The city is known for its bars, clubs, and events catering to the LGBTQ+ community. Milan's progressive mindset only enhances its appeal for queer travelers.
You can read more about Milan at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Europe's largest fashion mall is a luxe Italian heaven

A ‘Keep Portland Weird’ sign at the Music Millenium record store in Portland, Oregon
Joshua Rainey Photography/Shutterstock
"Keep Portland Weird" is a way of life for some in this beautiful Pacific Northwest city, which might explain why it’s so popular among LGBTQ+ travelers. The city hosts numerous LGBTQ+ events like the Portland Pride Festival and Queer Film Festival and is surrounded by sa tunning natural landscapes. The food scene is diverse and vibrant, with vegan and vegetarian options popular among many in the community.
You can read more about Portland at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Your gay guide to the Oregon wine country just outside of Portland

A colorful residential street in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico
Bentfotos/Shutterstock
What’s not to love about Puerto Vallarta? There’s the picturesque (and very gay) Zona Romántica neighborhood with its bars, beachfront restaurants, and gay-friendly boutique hotels and rentals, and an outstanding foodie scene. Annual events include Puerto Vallarta Pride and citywide Día de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead festival.
You can read more about Puerto Vallarta at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: 5 Reasons to stay at the all-inclusive beachfront resort in Puerto Vallarta

The Kalamazoo Replica Lighthouse in Douglas, Michigan
SNEHIT Photo/Shutterstock
Michigan’s picturesque Saugatuck and Douglas might be the most gay-friendly communities in the state, with gay resorts, restaurants, and nightlife as well as plenty of secluded lakeshore dunes to sport your latest Speedo for the boys.
You can read more about Saugatuck, Douglas, and the Michigan Gold Coast at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Here's everything you need to see and do as an LGBTQ+ traveler in Saugatuck and Douglas, Michigan

Beco do Batman in the Vila Madalena neighborhood of Sao Paulo, Brazil
SNEHIT Photo/Shutterstock
One of the world’s largest cities, São Paulo fittingly hosts one of the world’s largest Pride parades but is better known for its massive, colorful, and lively annual Carnival celebrations. The city’s humid subtropical climate brings warm temperatures year-round, making it a logical favorite of LGBTQ+ travelers.
You can read more about São Paulo at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: Elska magazine brings you the gay men of São Paulo, Brazil

A colorful pedestrian alley in the Old Town of Stockholm, Sweden
Arcady/Shutterstock
Sweden’s relaxing national mindset of lagom – not too much, not too little, but just right – might explain why its capital city, Stockholm, is a popular gaycation destination. The historic Old Town of Stockholm, known as Gamla Stan, is one of the best-preserved medieval city centers in Europe, same-sex sexual relations have been legal since 1944, and the surrounding lakes, mountains, and fjords are stunning.
You can read more about Stockholm at Lonely Planet.
RELATED: See Stockholm through the eyes of this Swedish icon

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